Is My Birth Experience Considered “Traumatic”? 5 Signs You May Have Birth Trauma

If you’ve recently had a baby in New York—whether you were at a hospital in Rochester or a smaller birth center near Ithaca—you might be struggling to process how it all went down.

Maybe people keep telling you, "At least the baby is healthy," or "You’re both here, that’s what matters." While those things are true, they don't erase the fact that your birth experience felt scary, out of your control, or even life-threatening.

Many parents ask me, "What is birth trauma, exactly?" They worry that because they didn't have an emergency C-section or a NICU stay, they aren't "allowed" to call their experience traumatic.

Here is the truth: Birth trauma is defined by your experience of the event, not just the medical coding. If you felt a sense of horror, helplessness, or fear for your life (or your baby's), your body may be holding onto that trauma.