Alright, new parents. Let's get real for a minute. You’ve just brought a tiny human into the world, and while it’s absolutely miraculous, it’s also, well, a lot. Sleep is a distant memory, your routine is non-existent, and every ounce of your energy feels like it's being poured into keeping that little one alive and thriving.

Amidst the beautiful chaos of newborn care and postpartum recovery, one of the things that often takes a hit is your relationship with your partner. You might find yourselves snapping at each other, feeling misunderstood, or just completely missing each other in the haze of exhaustion.

Hey there, new and expectant parents. Let's talk about something that often gets overshadowed by its more well-known cousin, postpartum depression: postpartum anxiety (PPA). While PPD rightly gets a lot of attention, PPA is incredibly common, and honestly, sometimes it feels even more relentless.

If you're reading this, chances are you've been feeling it – that constant hum of worry, the racing thoughts, the feeling that you can't quite relax. You might be googling "postpartum anxiety symptoms" or "new mom anxiety," desperately trying to figure out if what you're experiencing is "normal" or if something's genuinely off.

As a perinatal mental health therapist, one of the most powerful shifts I've witnessed in our field is the growing embrace of trauma-informed care. This isn't just a buzzword; it's a fundamental change in how we approach support for expecting and new parents, moving away from the often-blaming question of "What's wrong with you?" to the deeply compassionate and insightful "What happened to you?"

As a perinatal mental health therapist serving the amazing families of New York State (including right here in Ithaca!), I've been following the buzz around Artificial Intelligence (AI) in various fields, including mental health. While AI offers intriguing possibilities for certain aspects of well-being, I believe it's crucial to address why it falls short, particularly in the nuanced and deeply relational work of postpartum mental health and online therapy.

There’s something about summer—the slower pace, the longer days, the feeling of exhale after a long stretch of doing, doing, doing. Calendars open up a bit. The sun lingers into the evening. And for many, there's finally a little space to breathe.

While summer often gets filled with beach days, family trips, or time outdoors, it can also be a powerful time to turn inward. That natural pause you're feeling? It’s not just about rest—it's also a chance to reconnect with yourself. And for moms or moms-to-be navigating prenatal anxiety, birth trauma, loss, or depression, this season might be exactly the right moment to begin that healing process.

Bringing a baby into the world is life-changing, beautiful, and often, well, a little overwhelming. If you've ever thought about seeking support during pregnancy or after birth, you might also have run into some confusion or hesitation. It's totally normal to have questions about something unfamiliar, and sometimes, those questions can turn into myths that keep us from getting the help we truly deserve.

As a therapist specializing in prenatal and postpartum mental health, I often hear common assumptions that create misunderstandings about what postpartum therapy (and therapy for pregnant women) is really all about. Let's clear up some of that confusion!

The arrival of a new baby is a whirlwind, right? Amidst the tiny diapers, endless feedings, and what feels like non-stop sleepless nights, it's super easy for new parents in New York to feel isolated and completely overwhelmed. That's why having a solid postpartum support network isn't just a nice idea; it's absolutely crucial for your perinatal mental health and overall well-being.