Why Are We Fighting So Much After Having a Baby?

Before the baby arrived, maybe you and your partner felt like a team.

Sure, you had disagreements from time to time, but you generally felt connected. You knew how to communicate. You enjoyed spending time together.

Then the baby came.

Now you're arguing about dishes, laundry, bedtime routines, who got more sleep, or why you're the only one who seems to know where the extra pacifiers are.

If you've found yourself wondering, "Why are we fighting so much after having a baby?" you're not alone.

In fact, relationship stress is incredibly common during the postpartum period. And while it can feel alarming, it doesn't necessarily mean there's something wrong with your relationship.

More often, it means you're navigating one of the biggest transitions of your lives.