Why Do I Feel So Anxious About Taking My Baby to Family Gatherings?

“Everyone keeps asking when they’re finally going to meet the baby… so why am I dreading going?”

If you’ve recently had a baby, you may have noticed something confusing.

You used to enjoy family gatherings.

Now, even the thought of packing up your baby for a birthday party, holiday, family barbecue, or cookout makes your stomach tighten.

You replay every possible scenario in your mind.

Will the baby nap?

What if they cry the entire time?

What if someone wants to hold them and I don’t want them to?

What if they get overstimulated?

What if everyone thinks I’m being overprotective?

Then you catch yourself wondering…

“Why is this so hard for me?”

If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone.

As a maternal mental health therapist, I hear this from new moms all the time.